Tuesday, April 13, 2010

The Boys next door

 I really enjoyed reading the Boys Next Door. At first I was not sure what to expect, having no clue what the play was about. I found the story line and characters to be intriguing. It is such an unusual theme, but I think that is why I enjoyed it so much. It really reminded me how often we overlook people with disabilities, sometimes forgetting that they hold many of the same capabilities as everyone else, just in a different way. The four men in the story all had such unique personalities. Sometimes it is easy to label people like that as "someone with a disability" rather than truly examining them as a individual. This made me think back to when we were learning about character and how we often judge based on the exterior. I loved how Professor Corrigan stressed that the number one thing that we should see when we look at anyone is that Christ is the core of them. No matter who they are, what they do, how intelligent they may be, they are in Christ. Sometimes we underestimate those who are different than us. Why do we do that? I want to take the time to remember this next time I come into contact with someone who doesn't fit the norm. 

It is not the exterior that defines us. That is just temporary; meaningless in God’s eyes. This is something that we can not only apply when viewing others, but with ourselves as well. Often we put forth such great effort to build ourselves up based on what we do or what talents we possess that we lose sight of where our true identity lies. We were created in God’s image and for His purpose. When we put aside all the superficial criteria that the media and today’s society builds up so much, it is much easier to understand our true worth. It doesn’t matter if someone is the most intelligent person in the world or if they have down syndrome. It doesn’t matter if someone works at NASA or a fast food restaurant. What matters is the fact that we, as human beings, are in Christ. That is the only thing we need to place our identity in. 

5 comments:

  1. It has been eye opening to remember that they are just like us and to take heart when you come into contact with them. They want to be treated just like any other human being and they deserve to be treated as such.

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  2. I was just thinking how people, including myself, label others as disable and damaged when in reality everyone is disabled and damaged in some way. I am not trying to down play the situation at all, but I do feel that there seems to be a great innocence that these "damaged boys" have that seems to escape everyone else because we make ourselves adapt. We become afraid to hug our friends. We lose a great deal of our faith. Sometimes we even become embarrassed to love someone in public (i'm not talking about making out!:)) But these guys don't. When they hug, they hug. And they hope for the good always, never letting anything stop them from displaying their love. Oh how damaged and disabled we really are.

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  3. I too have caught myself judging someone because they were different than me. But it's important that we remind ourselves that we are all different but we are all capable of doing great things!

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  4. It has truly been a blessing reading this book. When we took the trip to AFI I stepped into a whole new world . It opened my eyes about people with disablities and their capabilities. Ana an I were talking to this one lady (and I forgot her name) but she just smile the whole time we talked to her. She was so proud of the things that she gets to do while begina a part of AFI (even if it was in a limited capacity). I pray that experience never causes my heart to wax cold.

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  5. I have a neighbor and friend who is mentally handicapped and he is a person. He might not be as capable to understand the world or live on his own as us but he is still a human being. I have been out with him before and people have stared and made jokes. I am just so happy that this story has opened up the eyes of some of the readers from our class. I really wish more people would realize that making jokes and staring still causes pain even if he does not realize you are being mean. Just think next time.

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